I am often asked about which flowers should be planted in the cemetery. The answer depends on several factors: Cemetery Rules. Some cemeteries do not allow bushes, because as small as they start out, they can overwhelm a stone and their roots can dig underneath the headstone. Some don’t allow planting in the back of the stone, or on the sides. So it’s important to always check with the cemetery first. Sunlight. Is the site under a big maple tree that keeps it in shadow during