Many of us remember trekking to the cemetery as kids – impatient while our parents planted flowers at relatives’ gravestones or dropped off a basket for Memorial Day. We might have wondered why we bothered to go to great-aunt Edna’s grave: she died 50 years ago, didn’t she? We didn’t know her, so what does it matter? With age comes wisdom, or at least understanding. As we grow older, we see ourselves as part of the fabric of life. More, we see our lives woven into the ta